Friday, May 06, 2011
Many things in between
Last night I went out with friends who introduced me to this girl. I guess it is not what I want but I never mislead or waste anyone's time. Friends did it out of heart.
Over the years, I have not wavered like a tree and simply dated girls but concentrated on my career and personal growth. I remain focused on the big picture and prepare myself to be the right person rather than to look for the right person.
I must say I only ever had interest in one girl in church before. She had a non-Xtian boyfriend then, married him and to date the guy still has not come to the Lord after 10 years. We were good friends then, we are friend now and I never made a move for her coz she had a boyfriend.
The other thing I find strange is people in church introducing me non-Christians including many of their beauticians. The message they send me is that I have no brains and the Christian ones in church are not available :-).
Nor do I need to go to church to be spiritual. The standard answer why we must go to church is that we must go there to learn spiritual truths etc which I can read from sermons online and spend time with family. My needs as a single guy, with a biz and parents to take care are different from just going there to listen to sermons.
Over the years, I have not wavered like a tree and simply dated girls but concentrated on my career and personal growth. I remain focused on the big picture and prepare myself to be the right person rather than to look for the right person.
I must say I only ever had interest in one girl in church before. She had a non-Xtian boyfriend then, married him and to date the guy still has not come to the Lord after 10 years. We were good friends then, we are friend now and I never made a move for her coz she had a boyfriend.
The other thing I find strange is people in church introducing me non-Christians including many of their beauticians. The message they send me is that I have no brains and the Christian ones in church are not available :-).
Nor do I need to go to church to be spiritual. The standard answer why we must go to church is that we must go there to learn spiritual truths etc which I can read from sermons online and spend time with family. My needs as a single guy, with a biz and parents to take care are different from just going there to listen to sermons.
